Sometimes it is not about the forced decent smile but the loud
careless laughter.
It is not about impressing each other but being exactly who
we are.
It’s not about
expensive gifts but the handshakes and hugs that we share.
It is not about talking everyday but still knowing each
other well.
It is not about the ‘hello’ when we meet but the familiar smile
we exchange.
It is not about being perfect but acceptance of
imperfections.
It is not about coca cola but the roadside tender coconut
water.
It is not about being good to each other but being the pain
in the ass.
It is not about the people staring at us but the madness we
are going through together.
It is not about being upset when laughed at but about taking
the revenge without hurting each other.
It is not about the handsome and beautiful but the kutta and
kutia.
It is not about the movie but our comments that follow.
It is not about going the right way but how much we enjoy
the wrong way.
It is not about being sorry for our mistakes but laughing at
our ignorance.
It is not about “you’ve changed” but “tera kuch nahi ho
sakta”
It is not about the most delicious meal but the the McD burger
that we share and the raw tomato that we hate in it.
It’s not about ‘please wait for me’ but ‘chup chap wahin
khade reh.’
It is not about being shy but sharing the dirtiest joke
ever.
It is not about you will find a nice guy for yourself but
I see you single when you’re thirty.
It’s not about I love you but I hate you till death do us
part.
It’s not about going places together but staring at the roof in the food court and listening to the sound of rain against the rooftop.
It’s not about waiting for the lift but going the opposite
way in the escalator.
It’s not about just walking around in the mall but being the
centre of attraction because we are busy being
stupid
It is not about you mean everything to me but you’re one
person I am completely comfortable with.
It’s not about you’re taking a wrong decision but if you’re
sure about it then let’s do it anyway.
It is not about why did not you tell me before but I know
you will when you’re comfortable.
It’s not about being a guy and a girl but a guy and a girl
who is a guy undergone SRS.
It’s not about wearing our heart on our sleeves but knowing
exactly how we feel.
It is not about being committed but the desire to be by each
other’s side.
It is not about the physical presence but the emotional
assurance.
It is not about meeting everyday but waiting for the day to
come when we finally meet.
It is not about being insecure and possessive but trusting
blindly.
It is not about where we are but we are in this together.
It is not about the words we speak but the silence that
speaks for us.
It’s not about being boyfriend and girlfriend but the love
and care that we have for each other.
It’s not about people wouldn’t understand our relationship
but we do not need to explain anybody.
It’s not about rules of friendship but the flexibility our relationship
with unsaid mutual consent.
It is not about promises but the funny deals that we make.
It’s not about falling for each other but ready to catch
when the other falls.
It is not about I will be there for you but how dare you
doubt about it!
It is not about who you usually are but discovering the best
of you.
It’s not about I wish I could meet you before leaving but of
course I am coming to see you off.
It is not about planning everything beforehand but taking
last minute risks.
It is not about missing you but remembering every single
moment of the short time we spent together.
It is not about being sad for it ended but being glad for it
happened.
It is not about saying goodbye but waiting to see you again.
It is not about the tears of departure but the eyes that
express.
Tonight is the last night of my lazy summer holidays and
sleep wouldn’t come to me because these things gave rise to a headache that no
painkiller could treat. Typing all this was the toughest thing I have done for
my blog. I knew what I wanted to write but did not know how to start. So I
ended up writing in 3 documents together but this one made its way here.
Having met my Best Friend Forever this summer after two long
years, I realized how much this guy has meant to me in last five years. The
summer is finally over and both of us are back to our own busy lives. As I saw
him waving his last goodbye when he left a couple of days ago, the realization
dawned upon me that this summer has strengthened our friendship even more. I do
not know when I tagged him my BFF but when I did I knew I would keep it
forever. All I know is that a guy and a girl may not often share just friendship but when they do, they become best of friends. They share a bond so rare and precious that words fail to explain it.
I pity those who think a guy and a girl cannot be friends
because WHAT IS LIFE AFTERALL … WITHOUT A LOT OF CRAZINESS WITH YOUR BFF ..
:D
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